OF FAILURE, HUB AND ARCHBISHOP JUSTIN

So the phone goes last night at 10pm.  It’s bound to be a N Irish cousin, whose social lives just get going at that time of the evening.  Hub answers it and sure enough, it’s Tony.  Tony’s the cousin he’s closest to – more like a brother, really.

Anyway, Tony has been meeting Archbishop Justin, who is over in N Ireland at present and getting to know the people who were and still are deeply involved in reconciliation there (which includes Tony).   And Tony says to him  ‘I think you know my cousin Geoff …. ?’  (Hub to you!)

Now a long time ago Justin was a curate in the next parish when I was a curate, and then he was a vicar in the same diocese as us, and then he worked at Coventry Cathedral just after I worked there, so we’ve always been on friendly terms although not close.

And he says to Tony ‘Oh yes.  Geoff is my hero.’

So Tony, intrigued, asks for the details.  And Justin says that all the clergy were in a meeting to welcome the new Bishop of Coventry one day.  And various clergy were giving 3-minute presentations about this and that.  And they were being rather pompous and wanting to impress and sounding much better than they actually were.  Then Hub got up – his brief was to talk about failure.  For 3 minutes he told the assembled throng that he and I had tried everything we could think of in our parish, to no avail.  

Afterwards he was mobbed by clergy who wanted to come up and say what a huge relief it was to have him saying what so many of them were feeling but too scared to admit.

That 3-minute talk has followed Hub around for years and years – I’ve been astonished at the number of people who pop up in faraway places and say ‘oh yes – you were the one who did that talk on failure – what a shot in the arm it was!’

And clearly, it’s not over yet … 

24 thoughts on “OF FAILURE, HUB AND ARCHBISHOP JUSTIN

  1. Wonderful. He was brave enough to tell the truth. A good deed in a naughty world. Clearly he is remembered and respected for his courage.

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    1. Hub is brave :yes: I am proud of him!

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  2. Absolutelybloomingmarvelous! Well done to hubs, admitting failure is never easy and obviously he is extremely respected for doing so! Go hubs!!!xxx

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  3. Good on Hubs that he was not afraid to say what everyone else was probably feeling. . . .

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    1. I’m proud of him, Murph :yes:

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  4. What a lovely affirmation and how reassuring there are people like your Hub who have the courage to be frank and honest… and how reassuring to hear that people really respond to it. 🙂

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    1. I was really proud of him having the guts to do it, and I’m intrigued that people are still talking about it so many years later!!! It’s like the talk he did on Easter Sunday, with no notice, in Romania at the Orthodox Cathedral … years later people are still saying ‘we remember what you said’ … sometimes the Holy Spirit just gets going in ways we don’t expect :yes:

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      1. 🙂 just goes to show the power of the Word, ie speaking Truth…. is very powerful :yes:

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      2. It was amazing how it freed people up 8|

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  5. Well done hubby, and now he’s even a ‘celebrity’ from it :))

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    1. If only … :no: but I am proud of him. It wasn’t easy to do!

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  6. His honesty certainly spoke to others. How gratifying that the Archbishop remembered it. 😀

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    1. Yes, it was nice, and funny :))

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  7. It takes a lot to stand up and admit to failure …… :yes:

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    1. It sure does. I was immensely proud of him :yes:

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  8. Very Good! My favourite one on failure…from Madiba…of course:
    “The greatest glory in living
    lies not in never falling,
    but in rising every time we fall.” Hugs! :wave:

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    1. Sometimes you just have to keep at it, no matter how thankless it all seems at the time.

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  9. Not sure about the Churchill pic.

    More powerful in my thoughts, is the reason for the idolising of your man. It tells you that strength comes out of honesty. I know this can be simplistic in diplomatic and global and cultural terms, it is, however, a great starting point.

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    1. I think it was humourous rather than idolising! But yes. It cost my husband a huge amount to be that honest to that gathering. We continue to be surprised at what it meant to others.

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      1. It’s amazing where karma shows up. 🙂

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      2. Yup

        …and guts.

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