28 thoughts on “DON’T RAISE YOUR VOICE …

  1. Erm…..well ….I have been know to SHOUT now and then….sometimes the only response!xxxxx

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    1. P’raps with lively dogs it’s the only way … after all, you don’t need a finely-honed argument for them 😉 :))

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      1. Lol….ALWAYS works with them!!!!One loud OYYYYY stops them in their tracks!xxxxx

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      2. Must try it with the grandchildren sometime … 🙄

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  2. I know you were joking, gillyk. But the truth is that we’ve reached a point where there is so much shouting and noise in public debates, that it is really hard to listen… I only wish that advice such as this was heard… and could influence.

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    1. Yes, I sympathise, and don’t approve (of course) of people shouting. In fact I often turn off the radio if the journalist is hectoring and shouting at an interviewee. It is so tiresome.

      Having said that, I think sometimes we can make our lack of reaction an excuse for not getting involved at all. And sometimes, not shouting can be downright dishonest, depending on the context. But as a general rule – shouting is not a good way of solving problems. And sometimes we can take ourselves too seriously.

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  3. I don’t shout I just put on my Brown Owl voice the kids say :)) the one that I really mean what I say :>>

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    1. I used to notice that my children looked as much at my face as listened to the tone of my voice. A firm voice allied with an uncompromising face on the whole was fairly effective 😉 but I needed both!

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  4. When one speaks slowly and quietly audiences are more likely to listen.

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    1. That can be true. Unless you’re being heckled, perhaps 😉

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      1. When people stop listening. Stop speaking you are probably in the wrong place !

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    1. … except I’m useless early in the morning … :no:

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  5. I like being a rebel WAKES everybody up :)):))

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    1. *whispers* let’s creep outside at crack of dawn and then REALLY LET RIP 8|

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  6. Personally, I find flinging bottle of milk AND shouting more effective 😳 😉

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    1. :)) Aha, but was the bottle full or empty … and was it glass … I would hesitate to throw a glass bottle … becoz I don’t want to clear it up!!!! :yes:

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      1. :))Was a plastic one litre one from supermarket and FORTUNATELY….. didn’t burst/break/spill…. or I’d have been truly livid…. and totally crestfallen and yes… the clearing up thing is awful…..:oops:

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      2. SOME TIMES IT IS JUST A RELIEF TO DO A BIT OF DRAMA QUEEN FOR A CHANGE … WHY SHOULD THE DRAMA QUEENS HAVE ALL THE FUN???!!!!

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  7. perhaps……:roll: xxxx

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    1. Just joking 😉 Can’t imagine you EVER raising your voice … 🙄

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  8. I ACTUALLY AGREE SOMETIMES IT IS BETTER TO SHOUT LOUDER SOMETIMES

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    1. ABSOLUTELY RIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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    2. oh yes.

      love+light to you+yours

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      1. :)) not often though, if I’m being honest!

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  9. I’ve just noticed that your blog post heading are in SHOUTY CAPITALS!!!!!

    Sh….. some of us are trying to get a bit of peace and quiet!!! 🙄

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